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Hi people.

I'm gonna be unfriending a bunch of folks in a little while. Why? Lots of reasons. I'm NOT unfriending with the intention of making many or any flocked posts in the future. It's primarily because, you see, I have an aversion to scrolling, and my flist goes too fast and is too full of people's random stuff I absolutely don't care about. More power to you, people who use LJ like an actual journal - I'm not one of you.

As has ALWAYS been the case, you can ABSOLUTELY unfriend me whenever you want. I don't get notifications about it and I don't care about your reasons and I don't think you're a bad person and my friending you has NOTHING to do with me wanting you to friend me back.

However, if you want to make SURE that I know you're interested in my rare posts, or if you really don't want me to unfriend you and you think I might for some reason, leave a comment here.


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Aug. 29th, 2011 02:46 pm (UTC)
Aug. 29th, 2011 04:39 pm (UTC)
Aug. 29th, 2011 03:33 pm (UTC)
I love your journal! I'd like to stay.
Aug. 29th, 2011 04:40 pm (UTC)
Well I ain't kicking nobody to the curb, sweetie.
Aug. 29th, 2011 06:14 pm (UTC)
Hah! We organize our friending the exact same way. I friend a person when I want their posts to pop up on my flist, OK? Sometimes feeling of friendship blossom from that over time, but it is rarely my original reason for friending. A quick perusal will show my relatively rare posts are 90% porn, but if you need to defriend to save from over-scrolling, I completely understand. I will just track you down other ways!
Aug. 29th, 2011 07:08 pm (UTC)
Honestly this post is just for the people out there who probably want to unfriend me but think I might go all shitlist on them if they do out of some misinterpretation of who I am. I've already run through the list and defriended the blathery people and the moved-to-different-fandom people and the absentee-from-three-years-ago people. If you're on my flist now, (which you are,) then nothing's gonna change in the soon-times. Unless of course you start making hourly posts about the yogurt you had today and if your mom is telling you to cut your hair or something or you start talking about the glory of jeeeeesus and so-on.

I feel like a bunch of people thought I was all trying to be FRAAAANZ when really I just... wanted to read what they were up to? When I want to make friends, YOU KNOW IT. Just like when I have beef with you, I'll like, PM you with my thoughts and let you know exactly what you can do to make amends and stuff, it's the same with friendship, i'll be like "YOU! WE ARE GOING TO DO X, Y, AND ALSO Z, AND THEN HOLD HANDS AND CUDDLE." I'm not... subtle. I wish LJ hadn't ever used the word "friends". "People who I'm eyeballin'" maybe?
Aug. 30th, 2011 02:28 am (UTC)
Aug. 30th, 2011 03:05 am (UTC)
despite your questionable taste in all things, you are also on the "never unfriend" list. If I make another post like this in the future you don't have to worry about it.

God knows why. I blame Daniel Radcliffe.
Aug. 31st, 2011 07:24 pm (UTC)
Hooray! Saved once again by my ridiculously sporadic updating habits!
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